The most important thing a son needs is his father, a positive male figure. Someone he can learn from, someone he can look up to, someone who can teach him things about what being a man takes. What to do in certain situations as a man. How to be a true man of God. How to conduct himself. How to be a leader!
But that’s not the case here. Why? Because I am a mother. I can only be a mother. As a mother, I can show my son how a female wants to be treated, I can teach him how to provide for his family. But I don’t have a clue about what being a man takes. What goes through their minds as males.
Hey, I can only give my son the female perspective of what I “feel,” and what I “interpret.”
This isn’t a blog to bash fathers for not stepping up but……it’s a blog telling a snippet about the importance of being in your son’s life. So that he can receive all that he possibly can from you – as his father, as his role model, as someone he can look up to in this crazy world. Sons don’t require much. They only want time and attention. They want you to answer their questions – because they have a million. They just need you to be there, plain & simple.